Friday, February 1, 2013

This is OUR year!

Yes..I know it's not "officially" the first of the year, but that's exactly why I didn't want to do this post until now. You see…I believe…it's never too late to start over & start creating the life you dream of! It doesn't have to be Monday, the first of the month, a brand new year, etc. Every single day, every single minute…is a chance to turn your life around & begin making your future…different from your past. If you've already broken your resolutions & are beating yourself up…STOP. Take a deep breath and start again... now. If you've eaten a bad meal & feel guilty, don't do what I do & kill it the whole day & wait until tomorrow. Make your next meal healthy. If you stopped going to the gym already…go tonight, tomorrow…whenever you can, whenever you want. We need to stop beating ourselves up & realize we're all human & we all fall…we've just gotta get back up, suck it up, & move on. EVERY MOMENT & EVERY DECISION manifests the life you've created. YOU are in charge of you & YOU can change ANYTHING you wish. NEVER let anyone tell you otherwise, in fact…stay FAR AWAY from those that throw mud on your wings. Surround yourself with those who encourage you to fly. YOU CAN DO ANYTHING & you absolutely can…make the rest of your life…the best of your life! Don't get discouraged, don't give up, & never compare yourself to others. Whatever you covet in others…stop. If you really want what they have…YOU CAN HAVE IT. As my Mama always says, "Life is full of choices." Life is a fraction destiny, but more than that…it's 100% what you manifest. Every decision you make, what you believe, what you tell yourself, who you surround yourself with, etc. ALL of these things can change. IF only you want them to. It's as simple, and as difficult as that. Realizing this is both amazing & scary. To know that the majority of your life is what YOU create it to be can be a tough pill to swallow. The good news is…it's never too late to turn your life around. But please don't misunderstand, I am fully aware that horrible things happen to wonderful people & I'm not at all referring to those instances. That is the part of life we have absolutely no control over. But more than you know…you do have control over.

So…go out there & get the life you want. The life you dream of.
I want it for you. You want it for you. And guess what…YOU DESERVE IT.
If no one told you that today…I did.
YOU DESERVE THE ABSOLUTE WORLD & I so want you to have it! 
It's not your neighbor's turn, not your friend's turn, not your co-worker's turn…
It's time for YOU to collect on all that was made just for you!
This world is full of "should haves" & people eaten up with regrets, jealously, & misery.
Don't let that be you.
Starting right this minute…get out there & create your dream world.
I love you & I believe in you!

"And I Quote…
May your coming year be filled with
magic and dreams and good madness.
I hope you read some fine books
and kiss someone who thinks you're wonderful,
and don't forget to make some art-
write or draw or build or sing or live as only you can.
And I hope, somewhere in the next year,
you surprise yourself."
-Neil Gaiman

In the words of 2 of my favorite You Tubers…

I resolve to…


I plan on making myself, my life, & my world…as beautiful as it can possibly be.
Let the games begin!

Come on this journey with me & let's, once & for all…start living the lives we're so deserving of.
Our very best lives. (Love you, Oprah)

Say these aloud & claim it!
Especially the last 2! 

2013 is OUR year!
I love you to the moon & back I want you to be the happiest you've ever been!
Until tomorrow, my Loves.
HUGE hugs from me to you!


If you haven't's a Glam Giveaway For You!

And because I love you so…

Here's to the best year of our lives!


Ashley Allan said...

Love this post! I actually wrote one similar about making 2013 my bitch! It's my only resolution!

Jlmarquez said...

Yes Ma'am!!! After reading this. I feel like you were standing in front if me and telling me this to my face! ;) I really needed to hear this! Great advice that surely will be taken! Love ya girlie!! Let's do THIS!

Leslie said...

I love this post!!! Man I wish I lived right by you or Verenia!!!! You guys are animals!!! Lol. You guys are the inspirations I need!!!! You truly are an amazing person!!!!!! Thank you for giving me hope and sooooooo much wonderful advice!!! :). BTW: I heard a song today on the radio that whenever I hear it I think of you!!! Whenever I was always at your house hanging out with Verenia you would be blasting Lisa Lobes song!!!! Lol, love it! :) xoxo

Krystal Soles said...

Okay... I'm super amped up now after reading this! Me and Hubster just vowed to not eat out ONCE in the month of February (for financial reasons) but we are using it as a jump start for our bodies too!

Your inspiring blogs come at such great timing!!!! I'm in this with you sister! From Texas to California, let's make 2013 our Bitch!!! Wooo!

Susan said... amazing is your husband??? I loved reading your back and forth.
We've been eating clean since Jan 2nd. It is HARD but worth it!! Good luck beauty! xoxo

Hello Fabulous said...

Veronika what a beautiful post!! Loved this, all of the encouragement, the cute exchange between you and your husband (you are both so lucky to have found each other) and the beautiful message! Good luck with all of your goals, I know 2013 will be a great year! xo